Monday, February 1, 2016

Life


It's been a while I made any updates. Life is good, busy, crazy, and trying at times. I've been struggling with allergies and sinus issues a lot lately. But I've also been blessed to learn and grow too.

I moved jobs (within the same company thankfully), and I am now liking my new department and responsibilities, and most importantly the fact that I'm much relieved from the stress of a pretty crazy boss and clients. In Fall, I've gotten approved to take my Project Management Professional (PMP) certification exam, for which I'm very proud of but also concerned with how am I going to find the time to study for. I feel very blessed and grateful for Heavenly Father's love and care for me. Before finding this other opportunity within the company, I submitted my resignation and started looking, had a promising interview with a company in a completely different industry but since this new opening came up in a group I was interested before, I decided not to pass it up. I've been looking into telecommute opportunities and luckily my current employer has started offering such arrangements. We will see if I can benefit from it at least for a couple of days a week.

Our family is doing well, we're still working towards adoption someday. We pre-selected a few times over the summer for pre-adoptive placements but things didn't work out (I'm sure for the best) and did not get those placements. There have also been a lot of changes in the adoption agency we are with and it didn't help. Meantime we're enjoying the life we have, the trials and blessings we receive.

Ella is doing great, growing and bringing more and more joy in our lives.
She's learning who is she, what she likes, and teaching us a few things too along the way.
Horseback riding: she's still at it, although very recently she came to a crossroads of whether she was going to continue or not. Challenged with being bucked off, not getting to where she was planning to, lacking confidence, but she decided to keep at it and work with her pony. I think she'll keep going with this. She's also expressed interest in starting tennis (she's got an amazing backhand and not too shabby forehand too!)


 
School: doing good, trying her hand at different things: made it through round 10 of Matchbook, a literary competition, and would really love to make the final team that will represent the school at district. She knows that we are very proud of her that from a year or so ago with hardly ever wanting to read a "thick" chapter book, last summer she read 10 of the Texas Bluebonnet award winners, and this past summer read all 20 chapter books. To enter the Matchbook competition, she had to read an additional 15 titles which she did. We are indeed very proud of her.

She has many favorites amongst these titles:


She tried Nat Geo bee, didn't make the team, but had fun in the process. She's still going strong with piano. A natural talent, most recently starting to play her own little compositions.



 
She had a part in the school Christmas program and did great! Many kids auditioned and only a handful were selected which made this even sweeter.


Did some jumping during the Christmas break.


We had a nice little Christmas getaway to Cali and enjoyed the Pacific Coast Hwy beautiful places.  






Yesterday was a big day: aside from the fact that the temperatures were in the high 70's, and that church was wonderful, Ella accomplished a left lead canter on Piccolo, something she has not been able in a long time. And to her delight we got a very fun family picture with both Piccolo and Marmalade, our newest kitty addition. Marmalade's intake to our family deserves its own post.

 
A special moment of love. Marking Ella's determination to keep trying and enjoy this sport, and get the response she needs from her beloved horse.


 

So so happy!!!

Easy to see why, once you see this:

 And this 

 And this











This post was written  last February when we thought we would be able to keep you forever. We were blessed to have you in our lives for about four beautiful months. Love you and miss you sweet Kaylynn!!!

Look who is growing up?!!!

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Happy 3rd month, little Miss Sunshine!!!

You brighten our days and we're falling in love all over again. We are so blessed to have your sweet spirit in our home and hearts.

You are a very strong little girl, who loves her formula and her sleep. You are very talkative and spread lots of smiles and raspberry kisses. You are already pulling yourself up, love bath time but strongly dislike when you have to come out of your little bathing tub. 

You are very loved!!!


( a little banana bread cake improvisation and raspberry lemonade mock tails curtesy of your big sister, Ella who loves you dearly.)








You blessed our lives for a short while but your sweet spirit will always be felt in our family heart.
(You were moved to the paternal grandmother on April 3rd, 2015 Easter Friday.) We love you and miss you dearly!!!

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Fostering children

Many may wonder why we foster. I have been thinking about what would be a simple one-word answer. An all encompassing answer. Yes, we both, all three in fact (Ella included) love children, all children, and we love them a lot. We know there are so many of them going through what no human being should go through and we want to help, get them out of that, to love them, to offer them a loving and safe home.

But if I were to truly sum it up in one word, in one reason, that would be Christ. I do it because i feel this is my way of showing Christlike love, of being Christlike. This is my was of fulfilling or attempting to fulfill this commandment He gave me:

"For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in:
"I was naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.

"Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?

"When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?
 
"Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?
 
And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me."- The Words of My Savior in Matthew 25:35-40




Wednesday, February 4, 2015

GSWEC Show: the making of a little Champion :)

Ella kicked off the New Year, really-The very first weekend of 2015 with some beautiful performances on Piccolo.


She got her first Champion (first place overall) ribbon by winning first place in all her classes in cross rails. In flat work she didn't do so great as at the time, her and Piccolo were having a bit of a disconnect on when to pick up the canter and not a fast trot, but as only Ella can turn it around, she at least got the purple ribbon( last place),  the royal color! I love her amazing sense of humor and positive attitude!! 


It was so great to have an amazing cheering squad who braved the close to freezing temperatures and spent hours standing and cheering for her. She sure felt so loved and encouraged!!! I love our family!! And of course, the lovely and warm hat from Mamaie and Tataie sure kept her warm!! 



Oh, that huge smile!!! She was so so happy and proud!!! 

 With her pretty awesome teammate who did great in the long stirrup division ridden by Hope Meinen. 


Some shots from her performance with Hope. She came first in two classes and second in the other two. 


 We shared some amazing moments those couple of days.







With the rest of the team and her trainer and barn owner, Marieke Slik. 



The beatitful collection of ribbons:










The very best of luck in your next show, girls!!

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